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Fiance & I plan 10person wedding in Vancouver 6/15,his sister 200 people NY 8/4,she planned 1st are we wrong?
My Fiance & I have been planning to marry for 6 months or more, he finally propsed 3 weeks ago! We’ve been together 3 years. His sister was engaged 2 months ago. She lives in Connecticut, we live in Oregon. We’re planning a small wedding (10 -15 guests) on the West Coast on 6/15, she is having a 200 person event on the East Coast (our hometown) on 8/4, we’re having a small event b/c we’re paying and would rather spend money on our honeymoon. She is mad at her brother (my fiance) for planning our wedding in June, we offered to pay for her flight out here along with paying for the parents too. Are we being selfish? She feels we should postpone our wedding since hers was planned first.
she sounds like a total spoiled brat!! i feel there is enough time between the 2 weddings for ppl to go to both. its not like youre having a huge wedding where you’re inviting a lot of the same ppl to your wedding as she is to hers with the exception of close family. and as you and her brother are offering to pay for his parents as well as HER ticket to come to the wedding i don’t see any problem with it.
to be honest with you, my hubby and i did much the same thing. i grew up in the portland area and he grew up in sacramento. i didn’t want a huge wedding (we had approx 10-15 ppl at our wedding) for personal reasons and decided to get married in sacramento while we were visiting his family. my 2 gf’s, one of my brothers and my parents provided their own transpo to get here. i let my extended family know we were getting married down here and they all were invited to come if they wish. my extended family didn’t like on missing out on the oldest granddaughters wedding. to me it didn’t matter if they came or not, as long as my parents were here to see me get married.
the point of my story is to do what YOU want, this is YOURS and your bf’s day NOT hers so don’t let her spoil it, otherwise in the end i feel you will be greatly disappointed and hold it against her for a very long time. I’m sure once she sees that you having your wedding before hers didn’t ruin her big day she’ll get over it
Good Luck to you both and CONGRATS!!!
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