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Seperate vacations in the first year of marriage?

My husband is very edgy with my daughters, 13 & 16. They can ask something as simple as, “when will dinner be ready”, and he jumps down their throat, “It’ll be ready when it’s ready!” He’s this way with me too, but I’m used to men being tacky that way. I don’t take up for the girls, but he expects me to get onto them, even if I don’t agree with him. There are a lot of times, when no one is being hormonal, that they all get along. The last short trip we took was very pleasant even though he expected to be miserable. He always seems to expects the worst. We will have been married one year June 3rd. The second week of June, we’re scheduled to go to Branson, which is where we honeymooned, to his condo for a week. He’s decided that he’s not going, but insists that I have to take the girls because we promised them. I feel that seperate vacations mean the beginning of the end of the marriage. I would feel guilty to go without him. I’m also scared to travel alone. What should I do?

Take your girls on that vacation. When you get home it’s time for you and hubby to talk!
He really needs some help. He may not realize it but his negativity and irritability are signs of depression.
Your girls are always going to resent him if they feel like they have to walk around on egg shells until they move out, which will be as soon as they possibly can by the way!
The strain on you must be awful too. Always having to judge his mood and wonder what’s going to set him off. Ugh!
I know because I have two teen daughters and my new hubby was just the same. He’s on anti depressants now and is better but the damage with the girls is done. My oldest moved out and the younger one is going as soon as she graduates. They never have big fights, it was just the constant picking and negativity.
I love my husband very much and now he’s a great guy and it makes me sad that my girls don’t like him.
Get some help now before it’s too late.

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