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Sometimes guys get nervous about "how to be romantic". We try to cover it up and those of us that are "slick" do a good job of covering it up. But even the most suave and romantic guy still gets nervous about exactly how to show romance to a girl that he really wants to sweep off her feet. Maybe because each gender has its own language and while girls seem to be born with romantic thoughts, guys have to learn them. But take heart because you can learn how to know the perfect words to say to the perfect girl in those moments of sweetness and romance. And the fact that you are already thinking about learning how to be a better sweetheart for your sweetheart means you are going to be ahead of the game when the time comes. First, think about the last romantic movie you saw. You were probably with your girl and the sweet talking guy on the screen always knew what to say to make the girl want to be all his. That movie was just an example of the many ways we have romantic thoughts and words around us all the time in movies, on TV shows and even on the romantic cards you buy for her. So to start building your list of romantic statements to learn from by writing down and learning some of the best lines from these the movies, poetry and other sources. You can even put them on cards so you can have a few with you on a date should the right moment come along. Well, there is no harm in doing a little homework. After all, if you don't walk around all day thinking lines that would fit in a romantic song, don't be too hard on yourself. Most guys need to shift gears to think of how to express the feelings we have inside for the girls we adore. And reading romantic poems and collecting your favorite lines will give you ideas on how to empress those thoughts. In fact, the last thing you want to do is just repeat romantic words from some poem or song hoping that will work. The "trick" of saying romantic things that makes her melt in your arms is to speak the real romance you already feel. If you were to just start chanting learned lines you saw her react to during the last movie you saw, she would see right through that. And to try something clumsy like that is worse than not trying to sweet talk your girl at all. So the clue its time to say something romantic comes when those feelings come up inside you for her during the date. By putting your mind in a romantic mood like your heart is in, you can just put in words the feelings you have very naturally in your own words, not somebody else's words. Don't worry. If it isn't all flowery and sound like something from a movie, she will know it's from your heart and she will absolutely love it. Your lover knows when you are being genuine and honest with her. Women have a sixth sense about such things so by simply using the feelings you already have, what you will say will be "just right" and it will take you into the romantic time of your date just like you want it to. The key is to recognize that thought when you have it buried inside and to have the courage to let it out. Yes, for a guy saying romantic things is all about courage. So often you have thought "Wow, she is so beautiful right now" but you don't say it. Just as woman have an instinct for knowing honesty, men have one for keeping their real feelings to themselves. You have to overcome those feelings of hesitancy so you can speak your emotions of admiration, of love and even of sentimentality when they occur. It might be as you cuddle watching sunset and inside you feel that you want that moment to last forever. You will have to build a superhighway between the feeling of that emotion and the saying of it. But once that feeling comes out of your mouth, in words that you use and phrases that are natural to you, they will go right to the heart of your girl. So instead of worrying only about romantic words that you hear other lovers say in movies and songs, start looking inside. You are having romantic feelings already, even if you have not spoken them to your sweetheart. By learning to let them come out when they happen, you will become the kind of guy who knows how to "sweet talk" your girl, not with phony borrowed phrases but with words of true love, feeling and romance.
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