The single most important skill every man should have is knowing how to approach women, because if you don't know how to do this, you're going to be at a serious disadvantage when it comes to meeting your dream girl...
You have to know how to approach a girl in the right manner if you want to have success with your pickup. The following are some proven tips I'd recommend you do to help you be successful in meeting women!
We've all had situations where we approached a girl with we thought was a smooth line, but she immediately rejected us before we could even open our mouths.
Know this - getting shot down has little to do with what you were going to say or what your intentions were. It's all about how you go about actually approaching your target. It's important to do this right the first time, because it's hard to recover when you make a mistake right off the bat.
The most important thing to remember when approaching women is to come off as NON-THREATENING and to not, under any circumstances, telegraph your interest in them too early.
This is about by-passing a girl's defenses and flying in "under the radar."
It's the woman's reality that she constantly gets guys approaching her and trying to pick her up, so her natural inclination is to nip this in the bud quickly by outright REJECTING any man who seems interested in her.
Think about this: if you had homeless people constantly walking up to you begging for change, you'd get pretty sick of it, right? Well, to most women, guys who try and pick them up are no better than that - an annoyance.
However, approaching women can not only be effective, but also fun and easy if you know the RIGHT WAY to do it!
So let's talk about the right way to approach any woman...
First of all - DO NOT HESITATE.
Waiting too long before you approach a woman will give you a chance to talk yourself out of meeting her. You need to overcome your fear and approach quickly when the opportunity presents itself.
Secondly, know what you're going to start the conversation with BEFORE you approach the girl. This will make meeting women much easier because you don't have to spend time thinking of what to say before you feel comfortable walking up to meet her.
When it comes to a situation like this, you should probably have a good, proven "pick up line" memorized that will help start a conversation.
But I'm not talking about the "Hey, nice shoes, what to have sex?" type line. The point is to be NON-THREATENING, remember?
A good pick up line is something that will start an innocent conversation with the girl you're approaching. Examples of a good line would be to ask her opinion on something and then continue the conversation by asking more questions about her opinion.
When approaching a woman, it's important that you approach her from an ANGLE. Most guys charge towards the girl they want to meet like they're marching to war! Coming in at an angle is much less confrontational and will put the girl at ease on a subconscious level.
Remember: great pick ups can only happen when the girl is comfortable with you. That's why it's so important for YOU to feel comfortable when you're talking to girls!
If you're not comfortable approaching women, the best way to overcome it is to go out there and start approaching women right away! After all, practice makes perfect, right?
Simply reading about meeting women or studying techniques is not going to help you get good at approaching women. If you want real success, you actually have to go out in the real world and meet lots of women so you can build your experience level. And the cool thing is - the more you do it, the easier it gets!
If you're worried about being rejected, just look at it as a game. The ONLY thing you're doing is approaching women. You're not asking her out, you're not trying to get her into bed, your only goal is to carry on some type of conversation.
That's it!
Make it a game by seeing how many girls you can talk to in one day, and then try and beat your score.
One last note - try and use a "time constraint" whenever you approach a woman. This is as easy as saying you can only talk for a minute before you have to run.
You want to do this because if she feels this approach is just a "momentary" distraction, and you're not trying to "impose" yourself on her, she'll be more willing to engage you in your approach.
Don't worry about putting a time limit on yourself. Once the conversation picks up, the girl will forget about your time constraint and you can talk to her as long as you want. Remember, the goal here is just to get the conversation started, and a good time constraint will help you do that!
Be aware that the dating game is actually a numbers game. You need to meet as many women as possible to find that one special girl who will change your life.
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